The person you love wants to leave you and deep on the inside you want to do everything in your power to hold on to what you have. It's only natural.
Let me ask you a question: Why in the world would anyone want to make someone love them? Why do you need to make someone love you?
If you could understand your need to hold on to someone who wants to leave you, it will change the way you see your partner forever.
I'm not here to sell you empty promises, I've been where you are now. As a matter of fact, you're not alone. Right now there are millions of people going through a breakup.
We fall in love naturally. There's a lot of talk about falling in love but what do you do when the one you love wants to leave you?
Many individuals just like you may be making some very critical mistakes because of the lack of understanding about what goes on inside a breakup on a deeper level.
And if you don't understand this, you will continue to rob yourself and scrape away at your self confidence just like I did because I followed my emotions and well meaning advice.
To put it bluntly, spending hundreds of dollars on fixing something when it is broken is a waste of your time.
And I don't want you to waste your money or your time.
No, I'm not going to sell you the "save your relationship" magic pill and promise you that I can fix your relationship because I can't.
I am neither a magician or a liar.
99% of people who sell you on trying to save your relationship wants your money. They have never been where you are.
There are a ton of people who are desperate enough to waste their money on getting a quick fix.
But life does not work that way.
There are no quick fixes!
The truth is, there are powerful secrets that I discovered when I was faced with the breakup of my relationship of 9 years.
And I wrote an e-book because no one told me what I should really do and why.
I never thought I could feel this good about myself after my breakup but when I made the decision to become unstoppable, I was literally transformed into a brand new person.
Are You Doing Any of the Following:
- Begging
- Crying
- Nagging
- Pursuing your partner
- Promising you will change
- Writing letters
- Giving gifts
These are NOT attractive behaviors
and will not work.
In the deepest part of your partner's mind, he/she will think you're a LOSER.
A LOSER who's also a WHINER.
Hope you got that. Let it sink deep, and decide NOW that you WILL be a WINNER.
Anytime you move towards trying to work on your relationship, you make the fatal mistake of not only losing your self respect but pushing the one you love further away.
If you are moving towards your partner or trying to convince him/her to stay, more than likely you are being faced with even more rejection. I've been there.
Family and friends know me as a savvy, independent go-getter, yet I became insecure and unhappy for months, because I didn’t do what works. I sought help online, wanted us to go to counseling, and read pages of books. Then spent months trying to save the relationship by begging, reasoning, trying to change his mind, trying to understand his reasons for leaving, and groveling. I became needy, clingy and insecure.
I lost my appetite, lost weight, and was on the verge of losing myself. I would cry until I could hardly breathe. I was devastated not only for myself, but for my two small children—frightened at the effects of being abandoned and having their family ripped apart.
If only I had someone to turn to—someone who knew the pain I was feeling, someone who could point out the pitfalls along the way, someone who could guide me step-by-step through the confusing times ahead.
I didn’t have someone like that. But you do. Having been through the experience of a breakup, I can be that “someone” for you.
Wait a minute...I love my partner, I want to make our relationship work!
You may still want your relationship to work but spending thousands of dollars to try to save your relationship while you are chopped up on the inside may cause more harm than good.
Maybe you've turned to counseling, searched online, read books, or reached out to your family or friends for help. Some may give you the advice to try and convince your partner to stay. Convincing your partner is not the best way to go.
Trust me on this one.
When you understand why trying to save your relationship will cause you to LOSE even more, it will absolutely transform the way you relate to your partner now.
Why focusing on your boyfriend/husband rarely works
The more you focus on your partner, the less your partner will focus on you. If you focus on the relationship, your partner will turn away from it.
Trapping your partner with these and many other "saving" tactics will destroy your self image and cause your partner to actually have more disrespect for you. Focusing on trying to save your relationship from your "own pain" will only cause you to hurt more.
A New Level of Confidence
I will show you how to come up to a new level of confidence. When you follow my strategies, it will elevate you to a new level of respect for yourself which may re-ignite your partner's attraction for you.
This is not about giving you a guarantee that you will get your partner or Ex back. It's much more than that.
When I applied these strategies, I started to become happier and it helped to boost my confidence. When I saw how these principles worked for me, I promised myself that I would write an e-book to help people know what to do when faced with a breakup.
My family and friends began commenting about how different I was—I looked better, dressed like a million bucks, and radiated joy. I was even able to attract a different level of success in my life.
You will learn from my experience, not having to make my mistakes yourself.
Experience a new, unstoppable you.
My e-book has over 40+ pages filled with simple, effective tips drawn from real life experience that can be applied to ANY relationship breakup. You’ll be able to apply them to your own relationship, giving you leverage in claiming your new life.
Inside my e-book, you’ll learn:
- Why you need to have a conversation with yourself. (Avoid this, and you could cause yourself more pain.)
- What to say to your partner.
- What behaviors will repel your partner, and why.
- What your partner may be thinking.
- Tips on getting a plan.
- What to do when your situation threatens to spiral out of control
- How to deal with emotional roller coasters.
- How to win your power back, and thrive in the process.
- The three words you should never say.
- How to deal with people who try to give you well-meaning advice.
- What to do if your partner left you for someone else.
- What to do about sex.
- Where your focus should be.
- How to win, even if it seems you are losing.
- Why your big heart and your big gift will not work for you.
- Married...What if your spouse asks for an immediate divorce?
And much more.
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So now it's up to you...
You can improve your outlook instead of crying, complaining, or feeling depressed.
Since I've been where you are now, I think I've got something much more valuable to offer than those who have not been where you are.
My life experience and insight will help you transform your life whether you are married, or in a longterm/short-term relationship.
What a recent reader said about my e-book: "Some things that I was going through were not easy for people to understand as they had not experienced a marriage breakup. This book is well written and helps one with the journey to recovery from what can be a very dramatic time in your life." Tamara Brown |
I feel like I can conquer the world and you could too if you follow the strategies written within the book. I am here to help. We’re in this together. I want to hear from you, send me an email: help@whenyourpartnerwantsout.com
Sincerely,
Nicole
P.S. My techniques work for any relationship breakup and the insights I have gained is absolutely crucial in helping you CREATE a level of respect that you deserve.
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